Choice
This week, I turned down a potential job offer--a job that would have paid about the same but should be less demanding than the one I have now. It is one that would have allowed me to travel less and spend more time at home, and one that is not likely to make me and my family move to another state.
I still think about whether or not I made the right choice. I do feel comfortable about the job I have now, but sometimes comfortable to me isn't always good. I get bored pretty easily and I am one who prefers new challenges than routines. Sometimes I like going out of my comfort zone to try something different. I embrace changes with wide-open arms.
But this time, I feel that staying where I am made the most sense. It is not easy what I do--in fact, it is exhausting at times. But here I think is where I have more opportunities to grow and be a better person.
Sometimes we forget how great it is that God gave us the gift of choice, the freedom to choose our way of life. I know some people in other parts of the world and under some circumstances, don't have as much choices as we do. I feel so lucky that while some people have found their companies shutting doors on them, one opened its door on me. And I can only hope that whoever lands that job is one among the many who are in need of it.
6 comments:
whatever you think and feel best liz, then go with it...
like the refreshing look of the pink rose liz --- spring is here, though the drizzling weather is making it feel like the opposite.
Cindy said...
whatever you think and feel best liz, then go with it...
like the refreshing look of the pink rose liz --- spring is here, though the drizzling weather is making it feel like the opposite.
Are you also getting rain there in San Diego, Cinds? Diri gyud kay nagbagyo gahapon. Kusog kaayo rain and hangin. Last night we can even hear the wind blow so hard--scary! Hope it's better where you are!
when it feels good for you, it is the right decision. (at least that is how i go with my decisions)
konsuy said...
when it feels good for you, it is the right decision. (at least that is how i go with my decisions)
I think you're right, Chi! I normally go with my gut feel. This one didn't feel right so maybe it really wasn't right for me.
CUZ, i always believe in that "indeterminable" feeling of staying rather than going, of choosing this rather than that. i believe you know in your heart that you made the right choice. remember that other job that you told me about? i think you have a track record of having an instinct for these things. :D
JoPiE said...
CUZ, i always believe in that "indeterminable" feeling of staying rather than going, of choosing this rather than that. i believe you know in your heart that you made the right choice. remember that other job that you told me about? i think you have a track record of having an instinct for these things. :D
Hala Cuz, you remembered! Yeah--I had that same feeling with this. I think my subconscious won over my conscious on this one. Hence, the decision to stay where I am.
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